Finding the Best Nursing Home
Whether you are searching for yourself or you are a family member helping out, finding the best nursing home near you
can be a difficult process. For all involved it's a new emotional and financial challenge. But the more prepared you are the better decision you'll make.
What is a Nursing Home?
Nursing homes provide their residents with 24-hour safety monitoring, daily living assistance, and advanced on-site medical care. They also sponsor social activities such as art classes, cooking classes, birthday parties and movie nights. A nursing home is place for a person who can't be cared for at home but don't need a hospital. Nursing homes typically have a nursing staff on site 24 hours a day. Some are set up like hospitals with physical, speech
and occupational therapy
. Some have special units for Alzheimer and dementia patients. Nursing homes are not only for the elderly; they are for anyone who needs 24-hour care. Up until recently, nursing homes were rigid and institutionalized. There were rules and a schedule for everything (waking, sleeping, eating, bathing, etc.). Now the culture is changing to one of resident-centered care. They want their residents to feel like they're at home. Many nursing homes are households—small groups of residents living under the same roof with the same staff sharing meals and activities. Some homes are on campuses with multiple households. Resident dogs and cats can often be found in the homes. And some homes
let residents bring in their own pets.
What to Expect
Traditional nursing homes are distinct from assisted living centers, which are meant for people with more independence. Nursing home residents typically are recovering from illness or injury, or need help managing chronic health issues such as cardiovascular disease, diabetes or dementia. Many of the homes are equipped with oxygen tanks, dialysis machines and other medical equipment that isn't normally found at assisted living centers
Examples of standard nursing home benefits are:
- Private and semi-private rooms
- Three cooked meals daily
- Help with daily living activities such as bathing and dressing
- Medication management
- Various therapies (memory therapy, physical therapy, speech therapy)
- Laundry and housekeeping services
- A social activity calendar
Despite their common points, nursing homes show lots of variation. Also, some have adopted qualities of assisted living centers. This guide can help you understand the possibilities and make the best move.
Before you do a lot of leg work, ask around.
- Ask your doctor, family, friends, neighbors and clergy what experiences they have with nursing homes.
- Ask a hospital's discharge planner or social worker for recommendations, especially if you're in the hospital or were recently.
- Contact a social service agency and talk to case manager about nursing home choices.
- Contact your local Agency on Aging for recommendations.
- Ask the question, “Are there nursing homes near me?“
In This Article:
Selecting the Right Nursing Home ↓
Nursing Homes vs Assisted Living ↓
Nursing Home Costs ↓
Nursing Home Payment ↓
Questions to Ask Nursing Homes ↓
Where Can I Find Nursing Homes Near Me? ↓
Selecting the Right Nursing Home
After you've asked around (see above) and have some homes that sound promising, go for a visit. And think about these questions while you're there. These questions will most likely lead to other questions.
Quality of Life
- Is the staff respectful and friendly?
- Is the nursing home clean?
- Do they offer social, recreational, religious and cultural activities that interest you?
- Can you choose your waking, bed time, and bathing time?
- Can you get food and drinks anytime? Is the food good? Ask to try it.
- Can you have visitors anytime?
- Can you have a pet?
- Is transportation provided?
- How much privacy is there?
- Can you decorate your room how you like?
- Is the temperature comfortable?
- Is there good natural lighting?
- Do you have a telephone and TV in the room?
Quality of Care
To be a certified Medicare/Medicaid provider, a nursing home must meet 150 requirements ranging from safe storage of food to protecting residents from physical and mental abuse. The State Survey Agency performs an inspection to rate the nursing home on these requirements. Ask to see a copy of this inspection report.
- Will you get a copy of your care plan? Your care plan is based on your health information and must be assessed in the first 14 days and at least every 90 days thereafter.
- Who are your doctors? Can you see your personal doctor?
- What improvement goals is the nursing home working on?
Federal law states there must be enough staff to care for the residents. What is enough? There must be at least one RN for at least 8 straight hours, 7 days a week. And there must be either an RN or LPN (Licensed Practical Nurse) on duty 24 hours a day.
- Does the staff wear name tags?
- Does the staff know the residents by name?
- Do they knock on residents' doors before entering?
- Is there a licensed doctor on staff daily?
Nursing Home Compare Tool
We have a database of nursing homes that we have reviewed. We provide current customer reviews and complaints for you to read into to assist with research. Our search feature can be used to compare nursing homes in your area and help you come to a more informed decision when it comes to picking a nursing home.
has a useful tool that allows you to compare nursing homes in your area so that you can do research on the various nursing homes in your area. You can choose up to three nursing homes to compare and you are provided with detailed results. You will learn about the overall rating of the facilities, health inspection results, staff ratings, and quality measures ratings. It is easy to input a zip code and choose three area nursing homes to compare and contrast.
When it comes to choosing a nursing home, it's important to do your homework. When you use our search feature or the Medicare nursing home compare tool, you will have access to an abundance of information to read over about nursing homes in your area.
If you are worried about cost, understand that if you don't have the assets to cover a stay in a nursing home, you will be able to stay in the nursing home as a Medicaid resident, as long as the nursing home accepts Medicaid. When you don't have private money to pay high nursing home costs, you will be covered by Medicaid once you have been accepted into the program.
Nursing home care costs will vary, but you can expect to pay anywhere between $6,000-$10,000 a month to stay in a nursing facility.
Nursing Homes vs Assisted Living Communities
Is a nursing home your best choice for senior care? It's important to know that nursing homes and assisted living centers are becoming more alike. Often people who initially look for a nursing home decide that assisted living is a better fit. Here we look at trends in services and costs for both kinds of living arrangements.
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Assisted Living Centers ↓
Progressive Care ↓
The terms nursing home and assisted living center have different connotations. Although the two types of senior homes are becoming more alike, their category names still matter. Facilities that offer “progressive care” can fall into both groups.
Assisted Living Centers
Assisted living centers fit many people's needs, often providing more services than people assume.
- With assisted living (as with nursing home care) residents can get personal care assistance in the areas of bathing and dressing, meals, medication management, transportation, getting into bed, and more.
- Residents can get help with laundry, housecleaning, paperwork and other chores.
- Compared with nursing homes, assisted living centers cost less and allow more freedom. Planned activities are likely to be more extensive and lively. However, compared with nursing homes they aren't as well equipped for medical care.
Generally the federal government regulates nursing homes, and states regulate assisted living centers. Federal law stipulates that nursing homes must have RNs on duty at all times. This isn't always a requirement in state-approved assisted living centers.
cost more because the care is more intensive. For example, residents in nursing homes are more likely to use wheelchairs or be bedridden. And although people in assisted care might have dementia, people in nursing homes who have dementia tend to have more advanced symptoms. Overall a nursing home is preferable when a person can benefit from constant monitoring and care from registered nurses and other medical staff. As explained below, nursing homes are becoming more like assisted living communities. A trend called “culture change” is making nursing home atmospheres more home-like.
Sometimes people choose nursing homes because they anticipate needing memory care
or other advanced care soon, and they'd rather not relocate twice. A better solution could be choosing an assisted living facility that offers “progressive care” or “a continuum of care.” A resident can start off in the assisted living area of a home, then move just a short distance if more intense care is needed later on.
Culture Change Nursing Homes:
A stereotype of nursing homes is that they feel institutional, or impersonal and bleak. The idea has a firm basis in reality — yet nowadays many nursing homes are warm, personalized and positive environments for residents and staff. An industry goal called “culture change” helps explain the transformation. Compared with traditional nursing homes, culture change nursing homes give residents more freedoms. For example:
- Residents can choose their own bedtimes even if end-of-day personal care assistance is needed; bedtime doesn't follow a strict schedule.
- Other examples are multiple choices for activities and mealtimes.
- Residents might also be able to decorate their rooms with furniture and artwork from home.
Culture change nursing homes also assign the same employees to the same residents for consistency and comfort. Sometimes this is called “person-centered care” because it's focused on what's best for individuals, not what's easiest for managers. Residents have a greater sense of control and independence, and this can influence their overall well-being. Population size can also powerfully influence quality of life, as it shapes a person's sense of community. Many culture change nursing homes therefore group their residents into communities of 20 people or less. Each micro-community has its own refrigerator for snacks, and possibly meals are prepared with the group's staff for a homelike atmosphere. Also for a sense of community, daily announcements are delivered in person by a familiar staff member, not impersonally over a PA system. Besides taking a person-centered approach with residents, culture change nursing homes take care to promote staff empowerment. This can result in lower turnover rates and happier workers, further improving residents' experiences.
Nursing Home Costs
with an assisted living community, a nursing home costs about double. This is because the typical resident needs a higher level of care. The price is calculated at a daily rate, then multiplied for monthly billing. In 2016, a GenWorth study found that the median monthly charges at Medicare-certified nursing homes were approximately:
- $6,850 with a semi-private room
- $7,700 with a private room
Rates can be much higher too… and looking ahead ten years, GenWorth expects that the typical resident will likely be charged more than $10,000/month. Obviously, living in a nursing home costs more per month than what the average American spends on rent or a mortgage payment. Fortunately everyone has a payment solution using private or public funds. You can jump ahead to learn more about paying for nursing home care
The cost of a nursing home stay
is generally covered by insurance when the stay is for rehabilitation. Medicare will pay for a nursing home stay if the resident is expected to return home within a three month period. Once an individual needs long term or custodial care, medical insurance no longer pays for the individual to stay in a nursing home.
It costs more to stay in a nursing home over an assisted living facility because more care is provided. In an assisted living facility, meals are provided, medication reminders are given and individuals have the assistance they need close by. The staff to resident ratio can be quite low, as residents often don't need much assistance at all.
In a nursing home, the level of care is much higher. Residents of a nursing home need medical care, medication management and hands on assistance with the activities of daily living. The staff to resident ratio in a nursing home is greater than in an assisted living facility. This raises the cost dramatically, as the staffing needs are expensive for the facility.
When you need a higher level of care while staying in a nursing home, such as dementia care, the cost of staying in the a nursing home can increase significantly. If you will be paying privately for nursing home care, finding the most affordable nursing home in your area will be crucial to your budget.
Nursing Home Payment Solutions
Staying at a nursing home in the US costs roughly $7,000 per month but we see lots of regional variation. For examples of extremes, in 2017 the typical cost was about $150 per day in Oklahoma and about $800 per day in parts of Alaska. Nursing home costs are also shaped by the resident's room setup, the facility's amenities and the level of care required… but in any case, the lifestyle isn't cheap! How do people pay for nursing homes? Ideally meeting with a financial advisor first, individuals and families find solutions with private and/or public funds. Especially when a spouse's living expenses need to be considered too, it's very wise to get professional guidance. Here's an introductory guide to payment solutions.
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Private Pay ↓
Annuity (Savings) ↓
Life Insurance ↓
Long-Term Care Insurance ↓
Renting Out Property ↓
Bridge Loan ↓
Reverse Mortgage Loan ↓
Medicaid & Medicare ↓
VA Benefits ↓
Nursing home care is expensive. Therefore it's common to pay privately at first
, then move to Medicare or another funding source. The main benefit of paying privately is flexibility. With Medicare and other taxpayer-subsidized programs, seniors have fewer choices because nursing homes can limit their numbers of publicly-funded enrollees. For this reason it's important to know the accepted payment setups before deciding to move into a given facility. Sources of private funds could be savings or money from cashing out IRAs and other investments. People also borrow from life insurance policies, sell their homes, and get reverse mortgages as explained below.
Planning ahead for long-term care, a person with savings can buy an annuity. The underwriter receives a lump sum of cash and then issues regular monthly payments to the individual following retirement. The individual can use these payments for a nursing home, a car payment or anything else. The main advantage of having an annuity is financial discipline. The annuity forces savings to be stretched out over time
, and regular payments are guaranteed. Additional advantages of annuities are:
- Savings put into an annuity are shielded from consideration on applications for government aid
- a person who lives long could draw more from the account than they put in
The main disadvantage of annuities is that value is lost in commission and annual charges. Also, penalties are charged if funds are withdrawn early.
A whole life insurance policy (but not a term life insurance policy) can be tapped for long-term care payments
. However, this of course reduces the financial benefit for heirs. Three approaches are:
- surrendering a policy
- selling a policy
- converting life insurance to “life assurance”
First, a whole life insurance policy can be surrendered to the provider. This means that the agency buys the policy back from the policyholder. However, usually they'll pay just 50 to 75 percent of the face value. Similar terms are offered for the second approach: selling the policy to a “life settlements” company. Again the typical offer is about 50 to 75 percent of the policy's value. The life settlements company continues to pay the policy's premiums until the policyholder passes away. The company then receives the financial payout. Life insurance conversion to “life assurance” is a third option designed specifically to pay for long-term senior care. Like life insurance, life assurance includes a savings guarantee plus an investment portfolio. Life insurance conversion accounts might give less for senior care but preserve a death benefit (inheritance). The advantages and disadvantages vary from person to person. Meeting with a financial advisor could be worthwhile.
Long Term Care Insurance
When a person is planning well in advance to pay for senior care, buying long term care insurance can be a smart move. It allows more freedom of choice compared with using Medicare and other public programs for nursing home payment. People buy policies that pay anywhere from about $2,000 to $10,000 per month. To guard against dramatic market changes, inflation protection can be included with monthly premium payments. It's important to know that long term care insurance policies vary in terms of when they'll pay benefits. Generally to receive payments for nursing home care or assisted living, a person must need help in at least two ADLs or activities of daily living. A doctor's statement of this need is required as part of the claim.
Renting Out a Property
When a senior leaves their old living space empty, then renting it out with careful management could be a valuable source of income. Turning a home into a rental might become a permanent source of income for the family, or just a temporary source of income until the home is sold. Ideally any rental arrangement will be made when the homeowner is still a competent decision-maker. For a loved one to take over, that person will need legal guardianship
or power of attorney over the homeowner.
Bridge loans can cover people's living expenses as they await a property sale, pension payout, or other virtually guaranteed source of income. A bridge loan is a short-term loan but often the first payment isn't due until 90 days after signing. Common loan lengths are from three months to two years.
Reverse Mortgage Loan
While a bridge loan can help during a pending home sale, a reverse mortgage loan helps keep the home until the second spouse moves out or passes away. The loaned money can help pay for nursing home care. The maximum loan amount available is based on home equity. The advantage of using a reverse mortgage loan for nursing home payment is covering two housing costs at once. However, when the second person no longer lives in the home, loan payments become due. Often heirs opt to sell the property rather than maintain payments.
Medicare & Medicaid
Medicare and Medicaid
are taxpayer-funded programs that help seniors pay for nursing home care. Both programs are limited to people with significant financial need. Medicare is generally restricted to medical care for shorter time periods. Medicaid helps cover custodial care. It's possible to be eligible for both programs at once. Medicare nursing home coverage
applies to financially eligible people aged 65 and up who meet all three of these criteria:
- initially require a hospital stay of three nights or longer
- require skilled nursing or rehabilitative care as judged by a physician
- move to a nursing home within 30 days of hospitalization
Without hospitalization, the person may be eligible for Medicare home nursing visits instead. When a patient is eligible for Medicare nursing home care, the program may pay the full cost of nursing home care for up to 20 days.
- Medicare will also supplement a stay for an additional 80 days (for a total of 100), but the patient has a co-pay of more than $150/day.
- If psychiatric care is needed, the period of care with Medicare supplements may be further extended.
Medicaid, on the other hand, helps pay for long-term personal care (such as assistance with bathing and eating) in nursing homes and other settings. Because Medicaid is partly state-run, eligibility and benefits vary by location. You can see the latest state government policies at benefits.gov
. Tip: Shifting one's financial assets could bring Medicare/Medicaid eligibility. For example, when planning for senior care more than five years in advance, a person could reduce their assets in a “Medicare-friendly” way by transferring a property deed to a relative. A person could also set money aside for funeral expenses and it won't be counted as an asset, unlike if the money were kept in savings.
The Veterans Administration or VA has three nationwide programs for supporting veterans with nursing home care
- Community Living Centers (CLCs)
- State Veterans' Homes
- Community nursing home program
Priority is given to veterans who need nursing home care for service-connected disabilities. Some programs are paid for entirely by the VA. Others require co-payments.
VA Community Living Centers
Community Living Centers or CLCs were formerly called VA nursing homes. They're especially home-like facilities for veterans of all ages. Social activities are planned, and residents are free to personalize their rooms and can keeps pets. Usually a CLC housing arrangement is temporary but some veterans stay lifelong. Services range from personal care to skilled nursing
and palliative care
. The VA operates more than 130 CLCs across the country, and most are located near VA hospitals. Benefits at all Community Living Centers include:
- 24-hour skilled nursing care
- Rehabilitative care
- Access to social work services
- Geriatric care
Additionally some CLCs provide these services:
- Mental health care
- Memory care
- Respite care
- Hospice care
In some cases a co-pay is required for VA CLC housing. Coverage depends on financial need and the veteran's disability status as it relates to service.
State Veterans' Homes
More than 1500 state-run nursing homes are approved by the Veterans Administration. When an eligible vet chooses care at any of these homes, the VA will pay part of the daily charge. Although all state veterans' homes meet certain VA standards, lots of variation results from states setting their own eligibility criteria and lists of services. In some states non-veteran spouses and Gold Star military parents are eligible for residence as well. You can find state veterans' homes in your region with the long-term care locator at va.gov
Community Nursing Home Program
The VA Community Nursing Home program partners with nursing homes in vets' own communities. This expands options for vets who don't live near CLCs or state veterans' homes, and want to stay close to their families while in a nursing home. VA-approved community nursing home care includes:
- 24-hour skilled nursing care
- Occupational therapy and physical therapy
- Access to social work services
Additionally some community nursing homes provide:
- Short term rehab services
- Hospice and palliative care for the end of life
- Special care for dementia
The Veterans Administration determines its payment subsidies based on military service, level of disability and financial need.
Questions to Ask Nursing Homes
Before choosing a nursing home for a loved one, visiting more than once is recommended. For example, one day you could observe afternoon activities. Another day you could visit for dinner and then see how the community winds down for the night. Sharing a meal with residents and staff can be an especially valuable way to get insights about the facility. Touring a nursing home, you'll note generalities such as the cleanliness of the rooms and hallways, and how kindly or not-so-kindly people interact with one another. You might also find that one facility is more fitting than another in ways that matter to your loved one — for example, it might have gardens, a therapy dog, or bilingual caregivers. Here are specific questions to ask directors at nursing homes and similar facilities:
- How many residents live at the nursing home? If the population is large, are residents separated into smaller communities?
- What is the ratio of caregivers to residents? Are particular caregivers assigned to particular residents?
- What is the staff turnover rate? If worker satisfaction is low, often this shapes the residents' quality of life.
- Does the facility provide three balanced meals daily? Do residents have choices at each meal?
- Can residents personalize their rooms with art and other belongings? What furniture is provided?
- When can residents spend time outdoors? Is the nursing home near other things that I like to do?
- What safety precautions are in place for residents with Alzheimer's disease or other dementia? Nursing homes might have secure perimeters, for example, or require certain patients to wear electronic bracelets.
- Does the nursing home provide transportation for medical appointments and to help residents with errands?
- What social activities are sponsored by the home? Can residents choose from more than one activity calendar? Generally the larger the nursing home community, the more diverse the offerings.
- What special services are available? Examples are tailored memory care, sensory therapy rooms, and hairdressing.
- What sources of payment are accepted? Some facilities limit their numbers of Medicare and Medicaid patients because they're permitted to charge more when billing privately.
- What are the move-out criteria? When might a senior be asked to leave against his or her will? Knowing the answer to this question is especially important if dementia becomes as issue, as some dementia patients tend to disrupt community life.
Where Can I Find Nursing Homes Near Me?
We offer an extensive database of nursing homes across the nation. Search our nursing home directory
or give us a call
on our senior helpline to speak to a representative directly. We can help you to find the right nursing home to serve your specific care needs. We can also help you to find a nursing home that is located near you or near your loved one, so that making the transition into a nursing home is as seamless as possible.